Heal From Narcissistic Abuse With Compassionate Coaching

Honestly, Jill Wise saved my life. I was six years post-divorce, trying to navigate my life after my ex-husband alienated my adult children from me and tried to destroy my life and my reputation. The situation was exacerbated because he manipulated my family as well, so I had no support system. Friends had never experienced what I was describing to them so they could not offer effective advice. I found myself very alone and in excruciating emotional pain, I felt like my life had no value -- especially because my children did not want a relationship with me. I am so grateful that I found Jill on social media and learned that she offered coaching for victims of narcissistic abuse and parental alienation. When we met, I felt truly heard and understood. She was so knowledgeable about what I was experiencing. She offered sound advice, books to support my healing, and the most genuine and caring emotional support. Every time we meet she is the lifeline that I need to help me to continue to heal

As a result of Jill's guidance and support, I have been able to start establishing boundaries with my mother, which is a huge step for me at 55 years old. Prior to Jill, I couldn't imagine doing this. Jill has given me many tools to help with my mother's relentless guilt tripping. This has been the most difficult aspect for me to cope with. My sessions with Jill have made me come to understand that normal mothers don't guilt trip their children every time they don't get their way. Through talking this through with Jill, I have been able to say no to my mother on several occasions now and not feel that I am a terrible daughter or feel the depth of guilt I use to feel. After every session with Jill, I feel validated and mentally stronger.

I reached out to Jill after I had seen a few of her Online videos and it became apparent very quickly that she had a tremendous amount of “Life Experience” in dealing with Narcissism and Parental Alienation similar to what I have been experiencing with my 4 beautiful children for the last couple of years. You see Jill Wise had been subject to the same amount of abusive Narcissism /Parental Alienation from a past marriage as I had been exposed and subjected to myself. I was able to quickly identify with her own experiences and organically begin to learn from her videos and then subsequently “one-on-one” coaching sessions. Jill impressed me by not only being tremendously resourceful (giving me numerous books, articles to read, contact list, etc) but also by delivering the message from a place of personal experience. You see Jill was a victim of narcissism and parental alienation just like I was. Her personal message experiences could not resonate more. Her coaching helped me re-evaluate my situation and gave me tools in a battle that I felt myself continuously losing. Jill is a guiding light in this very dark period of my life.

I was just trying to survive the most hurtful worrisome and confusing situation of my life. Although I had family and friends around me, they blamed me for what was happening or minimized and trivialized my experience. Jill's posts on social media caught my attention because they fit me as though she already knew what I was going through. I had never reached out for help through a social media platform before but I did not hesitate to contact Jill. I owe her my sanity and clarity of thinking. She listened. She provided me with facts, support, and guidance AND did so in a professional yet compassionate way. This is Jill. I listened and learned what to do and my daughter is now back in my life. But also and just as important is that I now have the tools and wisdom to keep going with new challenges. For a lifetime.

Thank you Jill.